Many of our decisions in life are actually made subconsciously by our "ego". This is not a good thing, because our ego is like a selfish little child who is constantly seeking attention. This is why we often react in ways that make no sense and make us seem foolish. Too bad we dont realize it until our conscious mind has analyzed the situation several minutes later. Luckily, we all have the power and freedom to choose our response to any situation (although most of us have given this power up). 
Today let's try to become consciously aware of our reactions, especially when we become angry, defensive, jealous, or intimidated. These are key situations when our ego is in control. This is when we must consciously choose a more positive and appropriate response. It's your life, take control back from your ego!
Goodnight, xoxo.