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Wednesday, December 26, 2012

Your own happiness.

We have to understand that we will not have everything we have now forever and that waiting until after it’s gone is not the time to sit and wish you would have done more when you had the opportunity to do so. Most of the time we take our lives and all that we treasure for granted, and don’t really know its true worth until it’s not around.

If we give into the childhood fantasy that everything just takes care of itself, we do not feel the conviction of responsibility to do all that we can to preserve, protect, and invest in our lives, each and every day. That is the problem with our society.

We need to have a sense of awareness and be thankful for everything we have at all times.
We don't ever live in the moment anymore and always have other things on our mind-things that we incorrectly deem to be of greater importance and are never happy with what is in front of us. We think we can have better. That's not living. That's called enjoying life. We need to be present in life, we need to enjoy every moment for what it's worth because if there's one thing I've realized, it's that, that moment, once it passes, is gone forever.
Without the awareness of the passage of time we let opportunities slip by rather than seizing the moments when they come. How many opportunities do we let pass us by while transfixed under the spell that we will get another tomorrow? The opportunities to step up, to take a risk, to do the right thing, to make amends, to say "I'm sorry" or "I love you". Life is too short to keep these things bundle up inside.
As human beings, our first-order inclinations are toward survival and self-protection. If we're honest, we can acknowledge that this leads to a kind of laziness. We wanna hide out, to shirk responsibility, to let someone else do the dirty work. 
The good news is that, if we can develop the courage to face the fact that loss is an inevitable part of life, we help create the conditions in which we can get up and get rolling.  
This is the path to a most desired state : Living in the moment.
Here, we can be guided by a set of much more uplifting sayings like "No regrets".
You need to live in the moment and appreciate everything and everyone you have around you. Be present in life, not always worrying about what's going to happen next. Life is made up of the moments that are to be cherished and when we're on our last days that is what we are going to remember. 

Allow yourself to create those memories and value them because they are worth more than anything money can buy. You can't buy happiness, but YOU CAN CREATE IT!!..

A Joyful Christmas.

Christmas is a time of cold weather, and warm traditions.. When special decorations are brought out of the attic.. Smells of favorite family recipes fill the frosty air.. When families take time to sing holiday songs and tell the stories they loved the most..

Christmas brings such a time of love.. The purpose to give, send love along.
A time of pleasantries, patience, good wishes to all, thankfulness, and gifts from our God..
Great the rewards that joy does bring.. Like the beauty in hearing angels sing.. We pray for our loved, each so dear.. Especially those who can't be near.
Give thanks to our Lord, His only Son..
And cherish His Christmas, everyone.

I made a Christmas wish for you..all my blog readers here, who also celebrate this beautiful Christmas.. For a holiday full of pleasure.. Friends and family all around.. And memories to treasure.. I wish for you a Christmas filled with joyous holiday cheer.. I wish you a Merry Christmas and a very Happy New Year ahead!

Here's my Christmas thingy this year ^.^

Christmas Nail Art

Christmas Opera Cake

White Bear on White Christmas
A Special Bouquet of Pink Roses for my mommy
O Holy Night..
Holy Night Candle
My sister and me in Church's Christmas Tree
Me with my "alay gurlz" hahaha! zhelby-me-debby.

Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Hunting at Hallo Surabaya

Taken by : Peserta UKM Martografi Universitas Kristen Petra 2012
Make up by : me
Spot : Hallo Surabaya

Friday, November 23, 2012

Why birds stay in the same place when they can fly anywhere?

I always wonder why birds choose to stay in the same place when they can fly anywhere on the Earth. Then I ask myself the same question.

"Home is where the heart is". These birds are used to where they live because they know what's around them. It takes a while to adapt to a new place. And why move when you already have a place you can call home?

That home means HEART.

Because in every relationship there comes a point when the damage is too much and no matter how good it once was, the memories can't sustain you. You have to save yourself knowing all the while it will hurt like hell. Because you can't keep giving someone everything if you get nothing in return.. 
No one has the right to tell you who you are and control your life, cause it's yours. Your life is meant to be lived by no one else but yourself. We sometimes let people get the best of us, destroy us, and change our opinions on what we believe is true. Only you know what's right for yourself, you have the power, you make the choices and you learn. Each experience we go through in life is a lesson to be learned. We all make mistakes, why is that so hard for some to understand? No one should be judged by the mistakes they have made. It's past news. Everything happens for a reason, and without the hard times, how would we ever realize our true strength? It's only through a time of suffering when we realize how strong truly are inside.. when we realize how much we can actually put up with and deal with before we eventually break.

Ever have that one person in your life that you just can't give up on. The one person that can screw you over time after time, yet you always seem to give them another chance? And no matter how many times you say this is their last one, you know it's a lie because there's always just one more waiting for them. The one person you know you're better off without, but you can't find a way to let them go because deep down inside, you wouldn't know what to do without them. The one person you know doesn't deserve you, but yet you choose to overlook it because you love him. Right?


Thursday, November 15, 2012

Stuck in your game.

I'm pretty sure we started talkin' during July.
We're friends now, and I don't really ever want to stop liking you.
You're sweet. Thanks for being there to cheer my whole day up with your very simple good morning saying and conversation stuffs.
I know maybe you don't even mean what you say. And I'm just being stupid for believing it but really, I thank you.
It's nice to have someone, although it's just a game for you, it seems real for me..

Tuesday, October 23, 2012


People change. Feelings change.
As day pass by everything changes.
He's not him anymore. You're not you anymore.
Everybody is not them anymore. And I'm not me anymore.

I'm growing up and slowly believing what my daddy said.
"Don't love too much in your age".
I think he's right. Because he met my mommy when he was 22, not 18.

It's not because the love isn't real and true when we're young. It's simply because when we're growing, we're growing apart. We got so many things in the middle, we lost so many things either. We got our first love, felt so happy. But then we stop thinking about it. We got our first heartbreak, full of pain, but then we're healed and move on..


Friday, September 28, 2012

Korean Mini Clay Watch

Best Seller Stuff from Korea!

Import from Korea.
Hand-made and hand-painting miniature.
3D Design.Material : Alloy case with IPS plating, PU strap.
Water resistant.
Dial Plate: 3 x 2.5cm

When we were young, we dreamed about fairy tales and the wonders of the world.
Today, MINI watches make your dreams come true.
MINI is the perfect abbreviation of "Miniature Watch", an outstanding collection of fashion watches with unique appeal.
MINI brings charmingly decorated miniature timepieces and every image and icon is a vivid replication of nature.
MINI watches inspire youthful imagination, thanks to their petite and cute fashionable approach, offering opportunities for teens to display their own sense of taste and style.
It's definitely a piece of art and a collectible!

There are so many cute choices!
Here they are..
Sweet Violin

Sweet  Lace Shoes

Sweet Rose

Princess Unicorn


Princess White

Wedding Dress

Pearl Cat

Wonderful Day

Love Letter

London Travel

Lady Retro

Lady Bow

Happy Birthday

Family Holiday

Crown Cat

Chalk Board

Brown Bunny

Love Bird

Breakfast Time

Cat in Park

Cherry Blossom Cats

Sweetie Chicken

Fashion Navy Dress

Just Dance

Lace Dress

Lady Bugs

Night Love Cats

Classic Eiffel

Pink Bouquet

Rose Bucket

Swan Lake

Contact me at my BB pin 29DDC472.
thankyousomuch <3